A Lasting Gift For Moms:
How You Can Get What You Want AND Give Your Children What They Need!

Dear Mom and Friends of Moms,

You have found yourself at the right place if you (or a mom
you know) want:

  To put an end to the daily frustrations in your home,
  Kids who actually listen to you the first time,
  To renew your passion for motherhood,
  More quality time with your family,
  Less yelling in your home,
 Your child to want to like you and hang out with you when their adults,
  To be sure you are not raising a spoiled brat people don't want to be around,
  Respect from your children and gratitude for all you do as their mom,
  To desperately change the misbehaviors that drive you mad,
  To truly be the best mom you can be,
  More FUN time with your family,
 Regular "you-time" so you can give more to your children!

And if you want to raise children who grow into happy, caring and responsible adults, this may be the most important letter you'll ever read.

My name is Kelly Nault and I've written an award winning book called, When You're About To Go Off The Deep End, Don't Take Your Kids With You: A Step-By-Step Guide to Permanently Eliminate Chaos  and Frustration in the Home, and Unleash The Ultimate Mom Within You.

It includes over 200 time-tested, child-proofed parenting tips that consistently work to get you what you want and give your children what they most need!


This book is positively changing the lives of mothers who:

• Are tired of dealing with the same misbehaviors over and over again,

• Second guess their approach to disciplining their children and feel guilty,

• Are burnt out, overwhelmed and don't have enough hours in the day,

• Deal with award winning temper tantrums

• Have been known to give a few award winning tantrums on their own,

• Deeply love their children but have those days when...

You'll love this information, if you are a mom who wants an approach to disciplining your child that:

       1. Brings out your best!
       2. Brings out your child's best!
       3. Motivates your child to learn from their
           mistakes so they do better next time!



Do You Have a Solid Parenting Plan? 

Parenting today is far more difficult than it was a mere generation ago. Today, children require both firm boundaries AND gentle flexibility that teaches them how to make smart choices in the future. Though, if you are like most parents, you probably don't know how to successfully provide your child with boundaries that work for both you and them.

You may nod your head in agreement, when I say it's crazy we need a license to drive—to fish—yet, anyone who can give birth, marry someone with kids, or adopt a child is supposed to know how to parent well.

If you are blindly parenting without a solid plan—if you are experiencing the stress and frustration of rebellion, tantrums, disrespect or ingratitude—there is a much easier way.

I am here to tell you parenting your child doesn't have to be this hard!



How You can Learn From My Mistakes and Experience a More Joyous and Peaceful Home!

Ten years ago I was literally in the parenting "deep end" with two boys who when they weren't bouncing off the walls they were literally pounding on them! Oh yeah, and they were also both blind.

The dozens of parenting books I read seemed to contradict one another and only worked for short periods of time leaving me frustrated!

I needed something that wouldn't just give me temporary parenting relief but ongoing relief! So I tried what seemed like everything. I used time-outs, I used consequences— heck, I even used force (once or twice)—but I only fell flat on my face. The discipline I tried with limited success eventually only seemed to make things worse!

The night one of the boys threw a  plate at my head during dinner (thank goodness he had terrible aim) I knew there had to a better way.

Finally, I found the parenting solution I was looking for!

The great part was that after implementing these new parenting tools, not only did the boys respect and listen to me more, I genuinely liked me more too! So excited was I by the results, I went on to get my master's in counseling psychology and became a family counselor to go on and share with thousands through my family counseling practice, workshops and radio and TV interviews.

Now, I have the pleasure of teaching an approach to parenting that brings out everyone's best!

What moms like about the Ultimate Parent approach is that it is common sense which naturally guides children to:

• Respect their parents,

• To be helpful and caring,

• And to be happy.

And the best part is this effective approach to parenting is fun to learn!

What One Mom Said About This Book:

“Parenting can be overwhelming  so I don't have a lot of time or patience to struggle through a book that makes it all seem like more work. The playfulness and quick insights in this book make implementing new behaviors (mine) a piece of cake. And what a pleasure it is to now share that "cake" with my happy and centered children.” **********************************************  - Leslie Lemberg, San Diego, CA, “Ultimate Mom” of Kate 7 and Jon 4

In this book, I invite moms to learn simple and effective parenting tools that ensure they are not unknowingly raising a spoiled child but instead raising a child they can truly be proud of. 

This easy-to-read book covers over 200 parenting strategies that solves:

   Sibling rivalry,
   Temper tantrums,
   Homework challenges,
   Bedtime struggles,
   Forgetting to do chores,
   Morning chaos,
   Disrespect,
   Curfews,
   Money struggles,
   Mommy-guilt
   Parenting burn out,
   And a whole lot more!

The parenting solutions you yearn for are here for you if you want them!

Moms, grandmothers, parenting experts and even dads find they can't put this book down! Why? Well, aside from offering over 200 time-tested, child-proofed and commonsense solutions to family struggles that work quickly, this book makes moms laugh!

When You're About To Go Off The Deep End, Don't Take Your Kids With You is  also the 2005 celebrated winner of the iparenting media "hot new product of 2005" award.

  Why is this parenting book so popular? Because
  it is fun, easy to read and offers parenting advice that
  worksfrom the easiest to the most difficult problem.

  Look, I know that moms already have TOO MUCH on
  their plate and don't have time to fool around. Moms
  NEED EASY STRATEGIES that work, PERIOD! In
  this book  I give you the cream of the cropeasy to
  implement parenting methods that ENSURE your
  success and make your life as mom more enjoyable.

By the time you finish this breakthrough book you will learn a completely new approach to parenting; a natural step-by-step way of raising wonderful children based on compassion, mutual respect, open communicationand oh yeah, fun!  

Are You Unknowingly Raising a Spoiled Brat? 

Five years ago I was a counselor at a local university counseling young adults.

What troubled me most was I saw far too many young students entering adulthood with a sense of entitlementlooking for what they could "get" out of the world. Having worked with families in crisis for over ten years and having helped parents to motivate their children to want to be well behavedto "give" rather than "get", it became my mission to get this information out to as many parents as possible.

I can't promise your children will turn into perfect angels over night, but what I can promise you is this: If you put these tools into place day after day you will start to see positive changes that will make you even prouder of your children than ever before (it will also make you happier and prouder about yourself).

By unleashing what I call the "Ultimate Mom" in you, you can start experiencing more of the "Ultimate Kid" in them! These child-proofed parenting strategies can positively change you and your child's life forever.

PLUS, this book teaches you how to put yourself first, so you have more "self" to give to your family!

Far to many children are growing up to believe they are the center of the universethe only person who matters. This is one of the worst things a parent can have their child believe.

If you learn the techniques in the book you can rest assured you won't unknowingly be raising a spoiled brat no one wants to be around.

 
What One School Principal Said About This Book:

“As a school principal of over 20 years I KNOW from experience the importance of setting boundaries with children and of the necessity for them to take responsibility for their behavior. This book covers setting boundaries and how to teach your children responsibility at an early age! If you are a parent struggling with common questions such as 'how much freedom should I give my children'  this is a great bedside read at any time of day.” *************************************** - Lucy Scott, North Vancouver, BC, Retired School Principal and Mother

Here are a few of the other things you will learn from this book:

• How to raise children who have towering self-esteem without feeding kids a steady diet of false praise that turns them into spoiled brats, pleasers and show-offs.
   

• What every mom needs to know about sibling rivalry and how to make it work for you instead of having it drive you nuts!
   

• How to find out if you are unknowingly teaching your kids to lie to you, and if you are, how to change this fast! 
   

• The most effective way to use time outs that achieve your goal of peace! (It's a way you may never have thought of).
   

• New and fun ways to encourage your children and bring out their best–every time they walk into the room!
   

• The Seven Steps to unleashing the "Ultimate Mom" within you. (Hint – this is actually easier than the way you are probably doing it already).
   

• How to get your kids doing their chores smiling (Sound impossible? You won't believe how simple this is!)
   

• How to save tens-of-thousands of dollars on family therapy (All by itself this tip alone will pay for this book a hundred times over.)
   

• The top five reasons you never, ever, want to be a “super mom” and why failing to ask for help is often more harmful to your family. Plus, how to get all the help you need!
   

• How to stop being your child's personal ATM machine and learn easy ways to teach your kids to spend and save money the smart way.
   

• Six ways to rediscover your passion for raising your children… forever.
   

• How to talk to your children about sex (really talk about it) to help prevent the unthinkable in the future.
   

• Why letting your kids fight may be the best thing for them, and how to stop a fight when the blood is staining the carpet.
   

• How to help your children hold onto their dreams (And why this makes all of the other steps so much easier!).
   

• How to bring more spirit to you and your family every single day.
   

• Eight secrets to time management for moms that won't turn you into a type-A maniac.
   

• Three critical field trips guaranteed to make your children into kinder, more contributing people.
   

• And many more topics, tips and tricks that support you to be an "Ultimate Mom" and raise "Ultimate Kids."

You see motivating kids to want to be well behaved (even your children!) isn't that difficult when you have the right parenting tools that have been proven to work.

What Parenting Expert and Best Selling Author Said About This Book:

“This is a wonderful book. It is engaging and inspiring and is filled with creative tips for dealing with children – and with life – in a positive and uplifting manner. Instead of jumping into the "deep end", you'll be soaring with delight as you and your children experience the skills that develop good character and the cooperation that makes love in relationships thrive.” ********************************************************* - Dr. Jane Nelsen, Best-selling author of the Positive Discipline Series

Yes, I already know I want this book. Click here to purchase your copy of this parenting book now.

This book is perfect for moms who:

  Want to renew their passion for parenting.
  Are living with a child who has taken over and is running the entire household.   Have difficulty asking for help.
  Know they could be happier but just don't know how. 
  Want to prevent future family chaos (especially during the teen years).
  Are overwhelmed and exhausted.
   Struggle and put too much pressure themselves. 
  Suffer from mommy-guilt. 
  Believe they could improve the quality of their family life.  
  Love their kids dearly, but have those days when they want to leave home.  


You may be wondering how I can promise all this and more…

Allow me to explain.

I know what its like to be standing at the edge, looking down into the bottom of the parenting desperation pool and wondering whether I should just jump off. I've been frustrated to the point of wanting to spank, wanting to lash out because I just didn't know any better way.

Why should you believe that I can help you?

I've tested tons of parenting techniques, helped hundreds of families get out of crisis and have developed even more strategies working with moms and families in my counseling practice and while doing parenting interviews on radio and television.

In my book, I have chosen the parenting tips that work for ANY child no matter how stubborn or difficult. This book also shows you how to inspire great kids to be even better! These tips are all commonsense but are not commonly used.

Chances are you are not yet using them, because no one has taught them to you.

And you don't have to take my word for it. Here's what other
moms have said:

“Kelly has written the ULTIMATE BOOK for mothers! As a grandmother and psychologist who has been teaching child rearing principles for over 35 years I thought I had read and knew everything there was to know on the subject and was not interested in yet another book. But Kelly's approach is magical and I could not put it down (even though I was in Disneyland with my grandchildren while reading it). It is upbeat, it is urbane and it is a must read for the parents of today's children.” – Dr. Clair Hawes, Sechelt, BC "Ultimate Mom" of 3 and Grandmother of 5

“An amazing book that has taught me how to access the “Ultimate Mom” within me. Now I enjoy, experience and connect with the “Ultimate Kid” in them so much more!” Kathy Verrelli, Langley, BC “Ultimate Mom” of Nicholas age 4 and Sam age 2

“Kelly’s practical tools have been a real blessing in our family since my two boys no longer have to experience the ugly side of me!” - Heather Piechnik, Victoria, BC “Ultimate Mom” of Lucas 7 and Caleb 5

“Wow! It works like magic. The boys haven't been fighting nearly as much since I read the book.” - Caille Howe, New South Wales, Australia “Ultimate Mom” of Jacob 7 and Christopher 14

“This book has really helped me adopt a completely new and revived attitude about having three small children. I am able to see the humor in my role as a mom now and my kids no longer take me for granted but have a newfound respect and admiration for me – their mom.” - Ivy Milian, Tampa, Florida "Ultimate Mom" to 3 under the age of 3!

“This book is long overdue! It is practical, readable, and very "do-able". It is so easy to lose sight of what is really important when we get so busy. This book is rich with ideas that will help every Mom become an "Ultimate Mom" and do away with being that exhausting ‘Super Mom’.” - Therese Daniels (PhD Candidate Clinical Psychology), Toronto, Ontario - "Ultimate Mom" to Carl age 19 and Patti age 17.

“Reaching far into the greater perspective of life, Kelly has rekindled in me the spirit of knowing that I am truly a good mother. Her daily diary episodes are touching, her lessons inspiring. With the wisdom of an elder, Kelly's storytelling revives a sense of real community, expressing the true value of family, inspiring us to be the best mothers we can be for the best kids in the world.” - Charlie James of North Vancouver, "Ultimate Mom" to Samantha 15, Nick 14, & Tim 6.

“As a busy career minded single Mom, the support, skills and easy to follow tips throughout this book are fantastic! There is only one problem though … why couldn't it have come out 14 years ago when I was desperate for it?! This book should be on every mother's shelf and I look forward to passing it on and becoming an “Ultimate Grandmother” in the future as a result.” - Kathleen Mongeon, Port Coquitlam, BC “Ultimate Mom” to Brendan 18 and Liam 14.

“Super book! I have many friends that will be receiving one as a gift, as it is important reference material which I expect to refer back to time and time again!” -Mara Harvey, Surrey, BC, “Ultimate Mom to Sophie 5 and Matthew 1

Warning: Do NOT buy any other parenting book
unless it meets the following criteria:

There is a lot of confusion surrounding the parenting field. Parenting philosophies from "spanking" to "naughty mats" often contradict one another and can create even more frustration for moms just trying to do their best.

I want to make it easier for you, so here are three essential tips when choosing a parenting book:

Raising your children should be fun! Many systems for parenting are exhausting, stressful and frankly boring. If you eliminate the fun (good belly-laugh kind of fun) you eliminate one of the main keys that will lead to success for both you AND your kids.

Parenting should be easy, simple and use good commonsense. Many parenting books focus on complicated techniques that end up discouraging you from trying anything new or share tips that only work for a while but don't have the positive sustaining results you long for.

Discipline should motivate children to WANT to be well behaved!  Most parenting discipline tactics only teach children to not get caught next time! Whatever method you learn make certain that it actually teaches children to learn from their mistakes and inspires them to WANT to do better next time.

The parenting tips and strategies need to be proven not only with the author's children but with thousands of children and parents. Before you jump on any new parenting system make certain the techniques and tips shared are time-tested and have worked with a variety of children and parents, in a variety of situations. Some parenting tips have only been tested in the authors home—not in others. Be careful when listening to this kind of information as every home and every personality is unique. 

Parenting should bring more to your own life than it takes away. Some parenting methods are restrictive—even painful to implement. Most parenting books do not tell you the truth! The truth is: if you love your kids, you need to start putting yourself first! If you give everything you have to your children—use selfless devotion—you may wind up having no "self" left to give them. Believe me when I say that the worst thing you can do is deny your own needs and have your children believing that they are the center of the universe. Don't follow books that don't address this critical reality of parenting success.

What Another Mom Said About This Book:

"This book has enabled me to learn to mother without guilt —something I had major issues with.  It is amazing how many things have changed since this book crossed my path.  I have taught my children to do so many things, which has made my life so much easier. I go back to the book again and again .  I am so grateful to Kelly for this information and so proud of myself for the positive changes I've made so far." ****************************************************** - Amy Hammond, PA, USA, "Ultimate Mom" to Rachel 5 and Ethan 3.

Take The Parenting QUIZ

If you think you know enough about parenting already, or believe you already have enough parenting books take this simply 12 question parenting quiz. Simply answer "yes" or "no" to each question.  

1. Are you currently 100% happy and proud of your family life? 

2. Do your kids regularly help you out without you having to nag or having to remind them?  

3. Have you taken some time for yourself—some "me time"— in the past week?  

4. Would other consider yourself to be an overall happy and joyful mother? 

5. Are you fun for your children and family to be around?

6. Is raising your voice and yelling something completely foreign to you?

7. Do your children know the value of money and respect it?

8. Would you say that you are regularly appreciated by every member of your household?

9. Are you proud of your discipline strategies because you know that your children learn from their mistakes and are inspired to do better next time?  

10. Is it accurate to say that you have unleashed the "Ultimate Mom" in you (not perfection, just the best of who you are faults and all), and are therefore, inspiring your children to bring out the "Ultimate Child" within them?

11. Does everyone in the household generally respect one another?

12. Are your bedtime routines a and morning routines enjoyable and bring you closer together as a family?

If you answered "yes" to ALL the above without hesitation, then you definitely don’t need this book. Yet, if you hesitated or said "no" to any of the above you may be wasting tons of your precious time and money trying to figure these things out on your own.

I know the frustration of parenting. It took me one full year of trial and error plus a master's in counseling psychology until I finally got it! That’s why I am providing this book: so you don't have to go through the pain and frustration that I and that so many others moms have gone through.

This book gives you at least 10 times your investment in time and money!


Yes, I want this book. Click here to purchase your copy of When
You're About To Go Off The Deep End, Don't Take Your Kids With You.

If you are frustrated with your home life you are not alone!

For very few moms, parenting is easy (and even then I don't know if I believe anyone who says parenting is easy!). For most moms parenting is uncharted territory, that takes time.

If you were to work with me personally one-one you're going to pay a lot of money (currently $250/hr). Yet, if you hold off in learning these strategies you may just end up HAVING to pay a therapist like me thousands of dollars over months and month to "fix" you and your kids later on.

So here's how I see it, you can invest the $20 (plus a bit on shipping) now to buy the book, or spend thousands of dollars in time, aggravation and money later on down the parenting road.

When you think about it this way, the book is a bargain! Plus, the time you save in wasted energy and frustration will be nothing short of amazing.

The choice is yours.

In summary, here's what you get in this one book: a complete easy to follow system for raising children who are self-confident, loving, responsible and just plain fun to be around.

Oops! I almost forgot my guarantee to you.

If you purchase this book (and for your sake and for the sake of your children I do hope you do) and for any reason feel this book does not help you in the way you hoped, simply take advantage of my no question, you-can't-lose,100% money back guarantee. Just get in touch with us within 12 months of purchasing this book and we'll refund 100% of your purchase price. No hard feelings.

Frankly, I only want this book in the hands of moms who I have earned their respect through making a positive and significant difference to the peace, joy and happiness in their home—moms who can't wait to pass it on to their mom friends! 

Thus, you don't have to decide right now if this book is right for you.

All you need to do is to try it out,  read it and put some of the ideas to use. If this book doesn't help you do everything I have promised and moreif it doesn't help you and your children, if it isn't life-changing, or if it plain-old just doesn't work for youyou have nothing to worry about because you can get every bit of your money back under my personal guarantee to you.

The only thing you can loose with this book is the chaos, frustration or unhappiness you are currently experiencing in your home.

   Yes, you want to order your copy now and start
experiencing less stress and more joy in my home click.

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The best time to start unleashing the best within you, so you can experience the best within them is right now!

It doesn't matter if things in your home feel dismal or out of control.  You can get back into control by choosing to get new information, support and guidance today.

You don't have to wait until later to get better as a family!

Making the decision to learn a few simple, powerful and fun parenting techniques today can mean a much brighter future for you and for your family.

As a matter of fact, the only way of getting out of whatever you are experiencing is by doing something different—by trying something new.  In the long run, learning these new parenting tools  won't even take more of your time because I can quickly teach you how to no longer deal with the misbehaviors that are currently eating up SO much for your time.

I've seen many parents who waited too late to get this information and instead were bringing their sixteen year old into my counseling office asking me to "fix her", to "fix him."

I don't want this to happen to you.

The reason I wrote this book was I was sick and tired of being a family counselor who was in the crisis management business. I wanted to be in the prevention business. 

Your children deserve a happy, confident and effective mother who is you!

If you would like to become your best, and give your family the best of you, I would be pleased to help you anyway I can. This, and a lot more, is what this book can give your family.

The only two questions left  for you to answer are:

1. Do you believe you and your kids deserve a happy and harmonious mother who has the tools to be a successful parent?

2. Are you willing to put a bit of effort in now in order to experience a happier, more joyous future with your family?

I wish you and your family all the best.

Fondly,

Kelly E. Nault, MA
Family Counselor and Award Winning Author
1-888-233-5652 (toll free)

US Office:
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Pittsford, NY
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Vancouver, BC
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PS. They say, "A journey of a 1000 miles begins with a single step." I hope the next step you choose to take leads you and your family toward a future of peace, joy and fun. You and your kids deserve this!

 

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